Black Tie Wedding Etiquette
Weddings range in formality from jeans to black tie and a mix of everything in between. Many people shy away from black tie standards at weddings simply because they are unfamiliar with the etiquette.
Two types
some people think black tie is the only formal class of wedding or evening wear, but white tie is also to be considered in this category. White or black tie is considered evening-only evening wear. This tradition began in Victorian times because it was considered only appropriate to wear your finest clothing after sunset.
Watch the clock
Since we no longer live by Victorian era standards, etiquette now states formal attire is acceptable after 6 p.m. or dark-whichever come first.
Age-appropriate
As suggested by formal wear, black or white tie events are formal and are not intended for children. A good general rule of thumb is boys should not wear dinner jackets before they turn 15 nor should they wear tailcoat until age 18.
Event appropriate
Even though you may be tempted to pull the tuxedo out of the closet at every opportunity, this is not appropriate. Opera openings, an evening at the ballet, symphony concerts, private balls or fundraising dinners and, in some cases, weddings are all appropriate places to wear a tuxedo.
By invitation
In most cases, if you are invited to an event that is black or white tie, the information will be included on the invitation. While in the past it was considered "tacky" to include dress instructions on an invitation (in the lower right corner of the invitation), but recent years have changed this trend simply because there are so few formal events hosted.
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