In many ways, the modern wedding borrows from debutante society.
The debutante ball, according to the Black Tie Guide website, introduces young ladies into society. Although some see the tradition as outdated, many want to incorporate debutante culture into their own, whether because of the elegance of the tradition or the history itself. And the long history of the debutante ball created several historic protocols, which according to Etiquette Society, parents must follow to properly introduce their daughter into society.
Dress Protocol
According to Black Tie Guide, traditional debutante balls saw the majority of young men in black tie only with only the father of a debutante and the escort in full attire (black tie, tuxedo jacket and cummerbund or waistcoat).
Networking Protocol
Social networking, now a major part of modern society, originated in debutante society. In some ways, social networking still remains the same. For example, a common debutante protocol involves engaging the young men at debutante balls and cotillions to increase in position, wealth and societal power. Childhood connections became adult love affairs and friendships, so networking was essential to the debutante.
Social Etiquette
One of the most important parts of being a debutante, many debutante schools teach social etiquette. Social etiquette covers poise, conversation and the curtsey. Poise grants women a literally regal standing. Conversation lessons teach women manage conversations effectively, including what topics to cover in conversation and speak to people in varying life positions. The bow and curtsey (also curtsy) show respect to people in positions of authority. For the debutante, encouraged to participate in a life of schmoozing with the well-to-do, all of these skills heighten her position in society as well as maintain her position while there.
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