Getting a tattoo is a personal choice for many women. Tattoos often express some aspect of your personality and may hold a special meaning only you understand. While no one can tell you what you can do with your body, if you are married you may want to discuss getting a new tattoo with your husband. If you choose not to discuss it first, you will need to find a way to explain the new tattoo in such a way that your husband understands it's important.
Instructions
1. Discuss the tattoo with your husband before you get it to avoid having to explain the new tattoo. This is the best and easiest approach. If you can do this, you won't find yourself having to explain after the fact. Offer your explanations first.
2. Hide the tattoo until you have offered your explanation. Wear a shirt or article of clothing that covers it while you offer the explanation. This is better than just appearing in front of your husband with a new tattoo. Seeing it before hearing your explanation may take the conversation in another direction or could result in an argument. Explain to your husband that you have something show him and ask him to sit with you.
3. Discuss the concept of your tattoo with your husband and the importance of the concept. If, for instance, you've had a rose and the words "soul mate" tattooed on your shoulder because you believe in the concept of two people being meant for one another, tell your husband this and explain why that concept means so much to you.
4. Tell your husband you have found a way to demonstrate the importance of the concept. He may ask you how. State that you got a new tattoo before you uncover it. This can help lessen the shock that may occur if you simply uncover it.
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